JABRO With Kids and Doll

"I AM THE BEAR YELLOWY - WHO ARE YOU?"

EPILOGUE

1. Several modern theories have been created the last 40 years as a) antiauthoritarian education or b) changes of behavioral rules by exchanges of gender specific toys to create atypical gender rules behavior but the praxis proved these theories wrong.
2. Children need the golden middle course of authoritarian and antiauthoritarian education to learn a positive behavior by being together with others,
3. Men and women have different genetic structures which are responsible for more male hormones and less female hormones in men and more female hormones and less male hormones, in women. The different quantitative distribution of female and male hormone in both sexes are determining their different behavioral thinking, feeling and acting. C) Another theory is that we can have a better world if we are teaching our children from earliest childhood that the reality of discrimination of disabled people, black, yellow or red pigmented people, poor people and women is just not existent if we, as mature responsible educators don't mention it while teaching our children.
But that is only partly correct: Certainly toddlers are accepting each other at first sight, disregarding different skin, disability or sex. But the discrimination is commencing at the moment, as an example, when parents/educators make them to compete with each other, such as for picking up gifts/sweets relatively difficult to reach. In fact, only the most clever and fastest of the toddlers are able to solve the given problems for gathering the wanted goodies they normally are not prepared to share with other kids having been unsuccessful in this way! Even the smallest kids are experiencing of their own, that discrimination is just a logic part of the big game being a "loser", or being a "winner". Small kids with the stigma of being a loser, rarely are defending themselves but become the victims of those which are seeking selfishly their own advantages on the costs of the disadvantaged what's certainly undermining their fragile, but essential self-esteem. Further, the lack of self-esteem certain is causing either the losers' disgrace in a cycling chain reaction, having to become effectively the non respected aggression-catalyst of the winners. Because of our men-dominated and -ruled world the genetic-based, more male-dependant, negative aggressive/physical aspect in most things of life is higher valued, supported and honoured rather than the more female-dependant, less aggressive but positive spiritual/emotional aspect.
This fact alone, is the main problem in our society bearing without any doubt future's deadly apocalypse of the human's race if not changed to a better!! In other words, it's just apparent and logic, as long as our men-dominated society's philosophy is based on a discriminating behaviour towards non-typical male appearances which encompasses in a chain reaction other groups too, nobody seriously can expect, that the offspring of this society is differently acting than its role-models. Therefore, the mentioned, genetic based facts of differences between the sexes and their dependant behaviour causing prejudice, injustice and discrimination is supposed just human's nature. However, if discriminations and their negative chain reactions genuinely should been stopped on this earth, the first step would be to find an essential, equal kept balance between the given differences on all levels of live.
This negative cycle of cause and effect has to be positively defeated with help of modern, pedagogical science, also in a spiritual way and exactly here, at this point, the religious/social education/integration of small kids in the community has begin to start. Since Homo Sapiens' begin of consciousness, millions of years ago, religion had to be always the effective, essential tool to avoid the threat of an anarchistic behaviour in the community. The Christian New Testament is only two thousand of years old, but the most humanitarian religion ever was declared, which, with good will, can be positively practised in the daily life of each of us. In this respect it is necessary to emphasize that our disabled friends are still not yet fully integrated in our society. Much more has to be done!
Because of faith in the POSITIVE POWER GOD as a helpful tool in every person's life everybody has the opportunity and duty to learn to respect others, to share with them his/her goods and to help unhappy and less fortunate children and unlucky adults! Think about it! You can't take anything with you when striding through the dark tunnel into THE ETERNAL LIGHT! I hope you enjoyed this book. GOD loves you and bless you.
J.A.BRO. © 1987/2003




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